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queerbychoice ([personal profile] queerbychoice) wrote2005-07-20 12:56 am

Happy 29th Birthday Dear Me

Guess who turns 29 today?

In the year that has passed since my previous birthday, I have accomplished all of the following:
  • Getting laid off (last July 26th)
  • Getting a new job that's a zillion times better than the old one in nearly every possible way, including more money, fewer hours, less to do within those hours, more fun stuff to do when there is stuff to do, nicer coworkers, etc.
  • Surviving just about every imaginable twist and turn in my relationship with [livejournal.com profile] chisparoja and ending up, no, not sexually involved anymore, but better friends than ever (and while we're on the topic of my previous birthday, Mikie, THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU AGAIN for what you did a year ago today)
  • Both starting and ending an ill-fated effort at romance with [livejournal.com profile] spiritofnow
  • Meeting the beautiful and mysterious (albeit somewhat decreasingly the latter) [livejournal.com profile] rekraft in person
  • Spending time in person (not for the first time) with [livejournal.com profile] chisparoja and [livejournal.com profile] rhekarid
  • Meeting (not in person) a bunch of people on LiveJournal, like, let's see, [livejournal.com profile] afro76, [livejournal.com profile] alcibiades, [livejournal.com profile] arlan_bishop, [livejournal.com profile] bay_bus_rider, [livejournal.com profile] becksterminator, [livejournal.com profile] belle_laide[livejournal.com profile] bootdoodle, [livejournal.com profile] c_in_hiding, [livejournal.com profile] cacahuate, [livejournal.com profile] charolastra, [livejournal.com profile] comeoneileen, [livejournal.com profile] darthlorexa, [livejournal.com profile] deconstructya, [livejournal.com profile] dieppe, [livejournal.com profile] dine, [livejournal.com profile] dobrovolets, [livejournal.com profile] dzuunmod, [livejournal.com profile] esk, [livejournal.com profile] faintpraise, [livejournal.com profile] felixthequeer, [livejournal.com profile] frou_frou_dyke, [livejournal.com profile] ingole, [livejournal.com profile] inthealong, [livejournal.com profile] jet, [livejournal.com profile] keryx, [livejournal.com profile] kurohime, [livejournal.com profile] lady_bug69, [livejournal.com profile] laurenhat, [livejournal.com profile] lil_e_beth, [livejournal.com profile] mellowtomysoul, [livejournal.com profile] normlessness, [livejournal.com profile] personunknow, [livejournal.com profile] picassolette, [livejournal.com profile] puddledive, [livejournal.com profile] pure_agnostic, [livejournal.com profile] rfmcdpei, [livejournal.com profile] sadboyq, [livejournal.com profile] saltbox, [livejournal.com profile] skandy, [livejournal.com profile] solitary_summer, [livejournal.com profile] subtleparadox, [livejournal.com profile] the_familiar, [livejournal.com profile] yareach, and [livejournal.com profile] zdamiana
  • Buying a far better digital camera than I've ever had before
  • Buying a frightening number of books
  • Resuming usage of the public libraries
  • Managing, for the first time in my life, to keep a plant alive for weeks and even months on end (The $2 neanthe bella palm in my cubicle at work is not only still alive but actually sprouting new branches!)
  • Getting well acquainted with the breadmaker I received for my last birthday
  • Reading, um, well, all but two of the books I received for my last birthday (I still haven't read Lorrie Moore's Birds of America or Julian Jaynes's The Origin of Consciousness in the Breakdown of the Bicameral Mind) along with all but two and a half of the books I received last Christmas (I still haven't read Aimee Bender's An Invisible Sign of My Own or Ismat Chughtai's My Friend, My Enemy, and I still haven't finished and really wonder if I ever will finish Julio Cortazar's Rayuela in the original Spanish), and a dizzying array of other books besides
  • Writing a year's worth of LiveJournal entries (Hey, that's hard work!)
  • Writing 14,100 words of my novel, increasing its total word count from 36,700 to 50,800 (You know, I hadn't realized until I looked back through my old drafts of it just now how much progress I did make on it this year. I'm still not at any sort of pace to win a NaNoWriMo or JulNoWriMo or any of those things, but I am picking up speed considerably compared to the previous five years when I wrote about 500 words total all five years combined. Go me!)

[identity profile] disi.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 08:13 am (UTC)(link)
YAY!

happy birthday!

Happy Birthday for today

[identity profile] roxy641.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 08:29 am (UTC)(link)
I hope your birthday is wonderful :)

Roxy641

[identity profile] beraht.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 08:29 am (UTC)(link)
Happy birthday.

Have we known each other a year already or did you just forget me? Honest question.. I'm not sure and it doesn't feel that long.

[identity profile] queerbychoice.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 08:35 am (UTC)(link)
According to Marnanel's Joule records, we've known each other since April 2004, so yes, it's been a year already. :-)

[identity profile] beraht.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 08:38 am (UTC)(link)
Wow. I never would have thought it had been that long.

[identity profile] queerbychoice.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 08:39 am (UTC)(link)
Next thing you know, you'll be 29 like me!

[identity profile] nouveau-prole.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 09:21 am (UTC)(link)
Many happy returns of the day.
Here's your Chinese horoscope (excuse me if you're familiar with it already)

Fire Dragon: Fire Dragons are warm-hearted and honest. They are temperamental and have no patience at all. Ambitious and proud, Fire Dragons tend to be authoritarian. They are perfectionists and will be highly critical if someone does not have the same standards or opinions as them. All Dragons are charismatic, Fire Dragons are inspirational - many are famous or infamous people.
Cancer Dragon: Cancer Dragons are profound in their thoughts and feelings, but they can be too sensitive. Cancer tones down some of the Dragon's qualities, making them less brash and reckless and more cautious. Cancer Dragons are very good at rousing and insxpiring others to achieve their aims.

My only published novel (86,000 words) took me 10 years to write, so you are well on target for success.
Keep it bouncing.

[identity profile] jaq.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 11:51 am (UTC)(link)
Are you going to party?

[identity profile] dobrovolets.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 01:01 pm (UTC)(link)
I still haven't finished and really wonder if I ever will finish Julio Cortazar's Rayuela in the original Spanish)

I'm not sure anyone ever finishes Rayuela. Some hardy souls manage to pass their gaze over every page, but does that count as finishing?

:-)

[identity profile] afro76.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 01:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy birthday! All the best people are born in July!

[identity profile] queerbychoice.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 02:38 pm (UTC)(link)
That horoscope sounds reasonably accurate except for the sentence, "They are temperamental and have no patience at all." I'd have to disagree with that one.

"My only published novel (86,000 words) took me 10 years to write, so you are well on target for success."

No I'm not . . . it's already been (almost exactly) ten years!

[identity profile] queerbychoice.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 02:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, it would be a lot easier in English!

[identity profile] queerbychoice.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 02:39 pm (UTC)(link)
My coworkers will decorate my cubicle and give my food and sing happy birthday to me, and then after work I go to my parents' house for presents.

Re: :-)

[identity profile] queerbychoice.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 02:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey, you're extremely newly 29 too! Happy five days after your birthday!

Thanks!

[identity profile] afro76.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 02:59 pm (UTC)(link)
And re. Rayuela, it's not a great deal easier to read in English, believe me!

[identity profile] dzuunmod.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 04:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I hope you enjoy(ed) the day!

[identity profile] socialismnow.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 05:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy birthday!

[identity profile] laurenhat.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 07:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy birthday! Glad to have run into you toward the end of this past year!

[identity profile] silverchan.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 08:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy birthday!

[identity profile] lentrot.livejournal.com 2005-07-20 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy Birthday!

[identity profile] spee.livejournal.com 2005-07-21 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
many happy returns!

[identity profile] comeoneileen.livejournal.com 2005-07-21 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
Happy birthday! And there's only one really good sentence in Birds of America, anyway. It's actually a parenthetical, if I remember correctly. I only bought it because that's the page I opened to in the bookstore. Aimee Bender is The Greatest Thing Ever, though.

[identity profile] theobscure.livejournal.com 2005-07-21 03:28 am (UTC)(link)
Ack, I almost missed your birthday! HAPPY BIRTHDAY! (and I'm sorry I don't have anything as creative to offer as I did last year.)

I think you have had a very interesting and productive year, in synopsis.

[identity profile] pure-agnostic.livejournal.com 2005-07-21 03:42 am (UTC)(link)
Happy Birthday! Here's hoping you get the best presents today, and that your 30th year is wonderful!

[identity profile] bay-bus-rider.livejournal.com 2005-07-22 06:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy belated birthday!

[identity profile] spiritofnow.livejournal.com 2006-03-16 02:11 pm (UTC)(link)
I had a chance to glance through Jaynes' book; honestly I find the idea that primitive peoples lived in a hallucinatory world because the two halves of their brain weren't connected to be somewhat outrageous. I find in it some traces of colonial thinking: the idea that tribal people can't think straight, or only possess a "child-like" way of thinking; a conversation with any surviving tribal person negates this. As for ancient civilisations, the Egyptians for example built a mighty civilisation and wrote sophisticated philosophy in which they pondered existential questions of life and death, hardly possible for someone living a dream-like existence with no sense of self. But anyhow, disclaimer: I haven't read the book in detail, and well, Jaynes is pretty well-respected in academic circles.

Belated happy birthday! (Yes, I haven't read your LJ in ages, so I'm just going through it right now, hope you don't mind.)

[identity profile] queerbychoice.livejournal.com 2006-03-16 03:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I actually still haven't gotten around to reading that book, and part of the reason I haven't is that I'm kind of afraid it will be absurd and offensive, too. I only asked for it because David Bowie recommended it highly. But one can always hope that the fact that Iman hasn't divorced him for recommending it means it's not too offensive . . .