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queerbychoice) wrote2006-07-21 12:06 am
Birthday Loot
I got a bookcase! I got a bookcase! My parents gave me a beautiful new bookcase! Or rather, a beautiful new-to-me bookcase. It's one of theirs that my mother repainted to match my existing one; it looks virtually exactly like the one on the left in this picture that I already have. (The one that's perpendicular to the bricks-and-boards one.)
I also received the following books:
Mostly though, I'm extremely excited about the bookcase. Maybe I should have been expecting to receive it, because usually if I ask for something unusual and my mother isn't going to give it to me, she tells me ahead of time, "I'm not going to buy you that because _____ [it's too expensive or too hard to find or too hard to know what kind I'd like best, etc.]" so that I won't spend my birthday or Christmas being disappointed about not getting something that I expected to get. But I don't want to spend it being disappointed either, so it's safer to try to prepare myself for not getting it. But I did get it!
I think it's worth turning 30 to get a new bookcase. I might even be willing to turn 31 tomorrow in exchange for another bookcase. I could probably use another. Can that be arranged? But then I might also need a new apartment to fit it in, and moving is no fun. I've resolved never to move again until it's into a place that I'll own.
I gave Stardust canned kitten food in lieu of birthday cake, but she still didn't refrain from biting me. Maybe she knows that my 30-year birthday is also her estimated 4-month birthday, which means she's ready for her 4-month vaccinations now, and I will be subjecting her to them soon.
I also received the following books:
- Ama Ata Aidoo: Changes: A Love Story
- Paul Bowles: The Sheltering Sky
- Gwendolyn Brooks: Maud Martha
- Dee Brown: Bury My Heart at Wounded Knee: An Indian History of the American West
- Italo Calvino: Invisible Cities
- Victor Hugo: Les Miserables (plus accent marks that I don't feel like hunting around for the proper HTML codes for right now)
- Ken Kesey: One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest
- L. M. Montgomery: The Blue Castle
- Marilynne Robinson: Gilead
- Muriel Spark: Loitering with Intent
- August Strindberg: Five Plays: The Father, Miss Julie, The Dance of Death, A Dream Play, and The Ghost Sonata
Mostly though, I'm extremely excited about the bookcase. Maybe I should have been expecting to receive it, because usually if I ask for something unusual and my mother isn't going to give it to me, she tells me ahead of time, "I'm not going to buy you that because _____ [it's too expensive or too hard to find or too hard to know what kind I'd like best, etc.]" so that I won't spend my birthday or Christmas being disappointed about not getting something that I expected to get. But I don't want to spend it being disappointed either, so it's safer to try to prepare myself for not getting it. But I did get it!
I think it's worth turning 30 to get a new bookcase. I might even be willing to turn 31 tomorrow in exchange for another bookcase. I could probably use another. Can that be arranged? But then I might also need a new apartment to fit it in, and moving is no fun. I've resolved never to move again until it's into a place that I'll own.
I gave Stardust canned kitten food in lieu of birthday cake, but she still didn't refrain from biting me. Maybe she knows that my 30-year birthday is also her estimated 4-month birthday, which means she's ready for her 4-month vaccinations now, and I will be subjecting her to them soon.

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HAPPY DIRTY 30!!!!!
Moving is no fun at all. J and I have thrown ourselves into the world of the joys of moving since we've been back........but the REAL drag is having to clean out not only OUR stuff, but also all the stuff of my parents. Like literal DECADES AND DECADES of stuff of theirs. ugh ugh ugh!!!! That said, it will most definitely be the last time I move......until I'm thrown into an old age home at least!
Maybe Stardust is givin you "love" bites/mouth hugs. If she's not REALLY chomping down or hurting you when she gets ya, then it's probably just her being "affectionate". Our giant kitty Ash does that too!
Re: HAPPY DIRTY 30!!!!!
Thanks for the birthday wishes! I hope your final moving agonies are over with SOON!
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(if you haven't read Miss Julie you'll find it troubling, i imagine. it's simultaneoulsy mysoginist and classist and proto-feminist. Ghost Sonata is one of my favorite plays ever. and i've always wanted to work on A Dream Play [outside of class]).